She played an f'ing game with me to get me to tell her I talked about our R with a friend.
Yep. Also totally AVOIDABLE.
John, maybe instead of this:
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Bought her a few things for the bathroom, toothpaste, brush, etc. to let her know I thought about her while I was shopping the other day.
which I'm STILL not sure how the hell that is "in the spirit of not purusuing," maybe you should have been PREPARING for how you were going to respond and interact with your wife.
Really, that "I decided that" line I threw out there I've thrown out at you before, and this is still really, REALLY basic stuff (like "no R talks") that you're not even executing (much less mastering).
You can do so much better than this, and you're going to HAVE to.
