I don't know what the benefit of that would be other than making me feel better.
My question to you is this... why would it make you feel better? You are not the one living a lie. You know what's going on and these are his lies, not yours.
From personal experience, I tried on several occasions to get stbxH to open up about OW. He lied everytime. It was a non-confrontational, friendly approach - we were separated already but sharing the house - and I just wanted to put it all on the table and still ... no dice. It gave me even more lies to be angry and resentful about - until I realized that was still getting me nowhere.
If I were you, and I'm obviously not, I would live my life as though there IS an OW and do what you should be doing at this point ... focussing on YOU. I'd be thinking about what you can do to protect yourself financially. Take care of you and D.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
