Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

You see Puppy, that is where I am confused. I have read that for unconstested divorces in GA, the parties need to agree to the child support amount, parenting plan, ect. in order for it to go through.

If an agreement can't be made, then it goes to mediation. If that does't work, then it goes in front of a judge. We are trying to avoid the mediation/judge, so we are trying to work it out together. To complicate things, GA removed the parenting time deviation from their formula. You now have to agree or it goes in front of a judge. I finally found an accounting place that has a calculator that will predict the parenting time adjustment, so that is good. I will have to see what the wife thinks of it. The further this goes along, the more I am not seeing an easy divorce in my future.

I know, talk to a lawyer. I am trying. It is not easy from over here. I have called and emailed more than I would care to admit.

I think you are right about the wife not wanting to look over her shoulder. That is quite depressing, but I know that she is not the woman i used to know. She even gave me a "deadline" of Wednesday to decide on her lawyer or the one I called. I told her that I am not the one in a hurry, and I need to make sure that the decisons I make are sound for me and the kids. That these decsions will last for a long time.

Well, that is all that I have right now on my front. She hasn't responded since I sent my last email, so we shall see.....