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I want to contact my exboyfriend and don't care.



Why? What will you REALLY achieve?

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were together 6 yrs. I met my h and was married in 3 months. There was never any real closure.


OK, now you aren't even being honest with yourself.

This statement is nonsense:

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There was never any real closure.


Closure is all about you moving on. Nothing you do aside from deciding to move on and live your life has a thing to do with closure.

This sounds like WAS script (rationalizing the irrational). Maybe I should read your thread?

Last edited by TimeHeals; 08/07/10 11:07 AM.

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