Mrs. A, what a great idea about a bad golfing meetup! Wow, I wonder if I might copycat you!
So Meetup guy was nice- when you say you don't want anything physical, do you mean you don't find yourself attracted? Or you won't be sleazy like me and make out with strange men? (lol! hey, I lost a few cards in the deck from this whole DBing fiasco!)
About you second guessing yourself in life right now...it seems completely normal (doesn't mean that it is RIGHT) for you to be "off your game" for a bit. DIVORCE is one of the top stressful things ever, right? But your plan to rest up this weekend sounds wise- and take out some anger on those weeds and branches!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004