Sorry for the delayed response there have been loads going on here. First, No She's not on drugs other then for depression and anxiety. She volunteered to take not one but multiple drug tests to verify she isn't hasn't and won't test positive.
Anyhow her aunt and cousin arrived for a visit and her aunt has lived through pretty much identically what I have been dealing with since I discovered it. She and her aunt talked at great length about everything that is and has occurred. She agrees that she needs to seek not only counseling but also to consult a psychiatrist about everything.
We talked last night for hours about everything and she finally broke down and cried and first time since this started I am beginning to see the woman I married reemerge. I'm not counting my chickens as I know its a long slow process but this was a very big and very positive step int he right direction. I'll keep you posted
M/49 H/35 Married 10 yrs 4 kids: B9, D7, B5, D3 Learned of EA June 2010 ILYBNILWU June 2010 Learned of SA July 2010
