A, the thing is that it doesn't matter what you do or do not intend or understand or expect. Telling your H what you know, no matter how gentle, IS confronting him, and you should be prepared for a defensive reaction. You asked for opinions about letting your H know what you know. I merely shared my experience. You know your H best, and the decision is yours.
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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
