Agreed....

I will give her space...support... encouragement
One thing that I have learned it my attitude is MINE and nobody controls it but me...

I have also learned when speaking with W when trying to help to NOT TELL HER WHAT SHE SHOULD DO....but try to ask open ended questions to help her decide what she should do.

Instead of "you should look for at least a temp job"
Instead things like "Have you thought about looking into some type of temp job?


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know