For someone who is extremely jealous, you must constantly give reassurances. Let them know what you are doing, where you are going and reassure them at least until the trust is built back up. This may take a long time.
Glad to hear things are going better.
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010
Well, I passed my two grad classes. B's in both. I was extremly lucky to have made any grade at all. At least I didn't mess school up. People at work think I am a loon now after all the depression and mopping around. I guess they will get over it. Everything is still on the upswing. We are out of the fire but still in the smoke I guess. I know our problems have not even begun to be fixed. But, we are working on them.
Congrats on passing and getting B's in your classes!
Awesome job!!
~gg.
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
Well, wife fell off the wagon if that is what you call it. She went to a garage sell and ask to try some clothes on-raided their medicine cabinet and came home screwed up as heck. Drove my daughter home with her. I had grandparents come pick up daughter and I am sleeping at work as she is quite insane at this point. I took her new car keys of the car I just bought her. Extremly disappointing. Guess I was trying to make lemeonade out of prunes. Lol. This addiction crap is stronger than me or her love for me. Maybe someone else is better fit to handle it than me. I remember why I wanted a divorce now. Things havn't changed, I have, I am a better person, she is the same. Sorry guys, sometimes it works that way. Maybe she will see the light but probably not. She will say the right things-she has been seeking and getting help for 10 years. Nothing has changed anything but maybe for a couple of months. I can't stand looking at the women I made love to, lusted after just two nights ago. She is like a retarded child with slobber coming down her mouth, totally unknowing of her surroundings, just a complete fool. And yes, I say fool, because she is one. She couldn't tell you my name right now. To think I cried, and fought so hard for this. I guess we are both the fools.
Sorry to here about this keep your head up and continue to be strong!! My thoughts and prayers are with you. Great job on your grades as well. Talk later Hope
Let's get this straight...you bought her a new car? If that isn't rewarding her bad behavior, I don't know what is. What happened to that list of boundaries you were going to have her stick to?
Has she gone into therapy? YOU have to be there with her. Has she divorced the other guy? She has shown time and time again that she can't be trusted on her own, so she has stayed consistent. You, on the other hand, continue to enable her.
That has to stop whether or not you stay with her or not. I mean she tried to commit suicide right? Well get her committed. Forget about your W...what about your kids? What if she starts tweaking when she's with them? Forget about your feelings for a change. What about theirs?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Awesome job!!