New here but learning slowly. Advice appreciated

[Albuquerque]

Hi Twink,

I'm relatively new so I don't think we've "met". I understand your situation. I've felt like that many times but have moved onto being prepared to be in it for the long haul. I don't condone his behavior but I know I can't control it. My purpose is not to "confront" in order to set some changes into action. I don't mean to give any ultimatums. I just kind of want to clear the air so I don't feel I'm being sucked into this game of lies. I will continue to treat my H as I do now and I don't plan on changing. It may very well change the way he acts, but I can't do anything about that.