New here but learning slowly. Advice appreciated

[crushednstuck]

Hey ABQ, I've just posted my sitch as well and have experienced similar MLC issues and have recently encountered the poking. It's all good.
The tri stuff is hugely rewarding, but I'll caution you against totally giving yourself over. I started with a sprint in 2002 and did my Ironman 2007. Unfortunately, it may have contributed to the feelings of isolation my W had. She's not a jock. The positive splits are no replacement for checking in on what's really happening in your head and in your relationship. However, there's nothing like a long brick to clear the melon.
Keep at it.