Don't mean to hijack your conversation, but I too have fibro, have been through menopause and have issues with my thyroid. Yes, I've been depressed,and yes, I wanted to beat my husband senseless. Hormones are a crazy thing and the best thing you can do is BELIEVE her when she says she's miserable. Adding in the depression and it becomes 6 of one and half a dozen of the other. Support your wife, listen, and know that not everything she is saying is coming from her heart. Some of it is directly from pain and hormones. In the meantime, take care of YOU and your little ones and become the best man you can for yourself and them. Guinevere was right on target! I got lucky. My H gave me the space I needed and loved me even though I must have been hell to live with. Hang in there. Whether or not she stays with you, you will be a better man. That can't be a bad thing. Good luck and God bless
