It wasn't in their family history as far as I know. I am aware that he could be reading this so whatever I posted is nothing I would hide from him. Sometimes my rants are direct to him in case he is reading.
If anything this place has given me a voice. There are things I have kept private for the reason he may be lurking. The vets who have helped me are aware that he may be lurking.
I may not have conclusive evidence now but I believe that when I do have solid evidence, it will be too late. I am sure I will have more questions later. But I understand that my h is acting immature. And that his parents are enabling this behaviour.
