Those are all good ideas and I have tried each of them. H is always on only his time schedule and returning calls is not on the top of his list. It grates me when I keep getting called because he has not returned the call, yet I don't want to be the nag or sound like a skipping record....or sound like a skipping record......or sound like a skipping record.....

Financially H is still a mess but he is no longer in denial about it and is at least trying. I still feel the fallout as he has not helped with anything that used to be 'joint' bills like mortgage, utilities, etc. Good news is a simple rewrite of the mortgage and I drop 1.22% and save a couple hundred a month.

Today was a return of memories as I saw one of the vets that assisted the day I found my dear Mother Mare down. I always wanted to thank him for his knowledge and kindness on the dreadful day 3 years ago now. He also remembered the day well and we talked quite a while and he was glad to hear how she turned out, and also had to look away when I told him we lost Mother Mare a year later.

Circle of life continues - I need to go get busy packing as I pull out early am to head to a show with my best mare, a Mother Mare daughter.

Wow, this sounds like a downer post but in reality I don't feel that way at all!


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.