Hey CD, I am so glad you came through the last 24 hours in one piece and it sounds like to me you have not only your head but your heart in the right place.
A very important thing to remember is that no one here that I know of is a professional and even if they were, my experience with therapists is......they suck!!! LOL
We all come here for the same reason initially......
I don't care who you are or what your view is.....
The site is called "Divorce Busting" right???
There are many "opinions" as how to stop a divorce...you have seen this first hand on your thread.
No one knows your situation better than you, all you can do is take the advice, guidance and experiences that are shared here and chart your own course.
IN MY VERY HUMBLE OPINION......You are doing GREAT, and you will enjoy a rich, fulfilling life no matter what happens.
I will venture to add this.....and I have said it before, I think you have a very good chance to restore your marriage....
I am a betting man and I got my money on you.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
