The hardest thing, to me, about DR is that in a strong sense you have to go against your natural instincts.

As for mentioning the phys R, don't be surprised if he says "you're lying." If he does, don't say anymore about it.

Attack and retreat - or something like that.

It's ok to be discouraged - just don't show that at home. Let him see that you are handling it all just fine. Hang in there -

He: WAH
Me: LBW
Precious: DD

~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.