thank you so much for your kind words b4. It sounds like you have had your plate full yourself! I hope things are getting better for you. It is going to take her a long time to get back on track as a human being. Are you sure that you want to wait for her? Is she really that worth it? I know this site is about keeping your marriage together but sometimes I think it is still important to realize that there is a time when you need to let things go. I guess it is about knowing what your boundries are and what you are willing to allow and what you are not. This is something that I am still trying to learn.
i have realized that it is not acceptable to take my daughter around another woman or anybody that i do not know for that matter! It is something that is non-negotiable.
Anyway I just wanted to check in to make sure that you are okay.
M=42 H=51 Common-law 6yr Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son Bomb dropped January 2013
Yes, I am sure that I want her. I am crazy about her. We are doing very well right now. She is getting treatment and we are seeing a counsler. She has enrolled at the local university to get her masters. I am almost through with mine. I don't know how I made it through this semester. She has a disease. I always thought that it was a character weakness. I am trying to understand. She had cancer several years ago and just addicted to the pill. But, so far so good. In fact, it has been great. I am struggling sometimes with the forgivness part but I am trying.
Great news I hope everything goes well for you thoughts & prayers are with ya. I guess you never know what can happen good job with school; believe me I know it's tough to focus on but some how we get through. Talk later hope
Thanks guys, wife is doing outpatient treatments and going to AA meetings at night. She got a part time job yesterday working for family services which takes care of people in financial need. She is starting her Masters in the fall. So far, she has shown a complete williness to change her life to be a wife and a mother. I know it is still early but I couldn't have even dreamed that we could be getting along so well. Trust is going to take some time. She is so jealous also which is not a good thing. I think that I really would be dead if I wouldn't have been able to express my feelings on this board. Thank you so much again. This board has some wise people on it and it helps so much. It might not save your marriage but it can save your sanity and help you grow as a person.
