...his decisions should not alter her resources, they should alter his. She should not have a lower standard of living. That's not how it's worked out. And while that sounds somewhat philosophical, it does get played out--judges don't care if a father has to pay the majority of his income for support, the childrens' welfare takes priority.
Yes! Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac