Thanks guys, wife is doing outpatient treatments and going to AA meetings at night. She got a part time job yesterday working for family services which takes care of people in financial need. She is starting her Masters in the fall. So far, she has shown a complete williness to change her life to be a wife and a mother. I know it is still early but I couldn't have even dreamed that we could be getting along so well. Trust is going to take some time. She is so jealous also which is not a good thing. I think that I really would be dead if I wouldn't have been able to express my feelings on this board. Thank you so much again. This board has some wise people on it and it helps so much. It might not save your marriage but it can save your sanity and help you grow as a person.