I hate to break it to you, but her saying she is still going on a vacation "later in the year" and actually GOING on that vacation is yet to be seen...
Do you think she would rather break up with you and say that you remain friends or break up with you and say you are not friends?
I have seen your situation time and time again...
Then suddenly at the last minute.. Something comes up and they can't make it...
Watch and see. You have a better chance of winning her back by telling her that "yes" friends is great. Perfect for me. I wouldn't want it any other way"...
And THEN ignoring her and dating around and seeing other women... Than you will by fighting her on the friends issue and telling her "I won't be your friend, but I WILL and still want to be your lover"??? Makes no sense on your part to say yes to love and no to friends????? That isn't how you win women back. Patrionize her... That is the way you do it.. You tell her one thing and then ignore her. Who says what "type" of friends you have to be? Make it YOUR type of friendship.. In "name" only...