Hi Gucci
In my case this is not true. We have a prepaid vacation booked for later in the year and she still wants to go even though we would end up sleeping in the same bed again. She has even said she will pay for her half of the money outstanding right now.

She has told her friends and mine that this is still in her plans and she really wants to stay good friends. This is what's so confusing to me. another reason why i am pretty sure there is no OM as how would she tell him she is going on vac with me.