Feeling good today. Talked with my mortgage broker again and we figured out there is no way that W will be able to keep the house unless I am forced to pay completely OUTRAGEOUS sums of support that would be beyond anything ever seen before.
W still insists that there will be equity in the house. If so, maybe we sell it. The house I am looking to rent is for sale for over $100k less than we owe on the current house and it is nice. Not as nice a view or walk out basement, but the pool is a nice touch too. We'll see. Getting through some of this is making me feel like I will be able to survive no matter what.
