It has been eating me up inside for the last week knowing my wife had introduced OM to my children and her family. We have only been legally separated for 4 months, this affair must have been going on even when we lived together. I told her I felt it was inappropriate for her to introduce our girls to him. I said introducing him to your family is no concern of mine. I felt I should have been informed of the fact she was thinking about introducing OM to our kids. She said know she heard this from me that perhaps it was the wrong thing to do or at least she would have approached it differently. This is another huge emotional blow for me knowing she has confirmed OM. I am sick to my stomach knowing….. emotionally numb.