The problem I have, as a woman, is once I feel detached the other person's touch would be unwelcome. They would have to woo me first - win me back. I think slow and steady wins the race in that situation.
I don't disagree. I am just digging into "are acts of service and gifts the way to deal with this?".
My gut is telling me "validation": don't fight her or try to change her mind, don't get angry or upset, accept her. I could be wrong.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
