If you are willing to commit to work with this family, you are welcome to be part of this family and remain here with us. The boundaries we need to lay out for our safety would apply to both of us. Your family would love to have you here. But it is imperative that you offer a positive and hopeful atmosphere. This CAN work out if we both do the hard work involved - families accomplish this every day. You may not feel that way, but this doens't dismiss the facts.
Famlies either work on their problems and overcome them, or they run away and allow the family to fall apart. If you insist on clinging to a negative and threatening mindset that you don't want the marriage and don't want to live with this family, you need to be elsewhere for the emotional and physical health of myself our children.
