dsh - It's possible about the finances - I had a friend who did that very thing. However, don't mind read. And what does it matter? In the end that won't determine whether she stays or not. How she feels about you and the relationship will determine whether she stays.
making progress - I am not a "hugger." Having said that, as long as I have some connection to someone I don't mind being touched. The more intimate the touching the stronger the connection required. Hope that helps.
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~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.