LRT,
Thank you for stopping by, most of the posts have been from Men, so a woman's thought is appreciated. YOur statement is exactly why I have not tried to touch her in any way.

I felt the gift was a form of wooing and just a gesture of "you deserve it". If we werent at this point I would tell her how proud I am of her stepping up and working so much. The issue is she is doing it to build her own bank for the D I believe.