My H isn't having an affair, and I can't imagine how painful it is to deal with that extra piece. It was bad enough to receive a letter from his lawyer.
Looking back, I can find several times where both H and I treated strangers better than we treated each other. It shouldn't be that way.
I'm thinking of my M as a plant. And every day I ask myself "what do you do to water your plant today?" This plant needs daily water or it shrivels and eventually dies. It took almost losing the M for me to get that - and I'm not out of the woods yet.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.
