He FEELS hopeless and has no education on this subject so he has to rely on his instincts...
And they tell him - RUN!!!
He doen'st WANT to run, he feels like that's his only hope to escape his miserable feelings...
There ARE better responses, but he doenst have the education so he's relying on instincts alone.. see?
Yeah, I can see that. Although, he got quite the education last weekend and still refuses to let parts of it sink in. Lets hope enough stuck that he finds his way through it. It's hard for me to try to piece this R back together when he wants to one minute and doesn't the next - or wants to for the wrong reason (co-parenting).
Even S16 said maybe it's best he goes so he can see that he's NOT happier off on his own... but, that's not what I want to happen, obviously. I can't help but wonder if it might be for the best though, if his mindset doesn't change.
