H4Us, thank you for being here and posting this! It's very inspiring and I appreciate your words of wisdom.
My biggest concern right now is, I believe my WH was having an EA but has now stopped. (Actions support that theory.) However, he is still not ready to commit to the M even though our R is improving. He is still playing the blame game and pointing fingers at me for everything, not accepting responsibility for his own unhappiness.
How am I supposed to work on Piecing with H if he is still unwilling to budge from this position? Is it useless to try until he gets to that point?
