Time and committment is the answer IMO. Often we feel like we detach but then get pulled back in. It could be a simple look from our spouses. It could be an event..say birthday party..it could be our own "emotions" getting a hold of us.
For the record, it still happens to me. So what is one to do? You pick yourself and keep moving. You keep working on it.
I think I have finally realized that it will "just happen" - it really will. This ladies...it the "process".
Personally, I think we all need to feel that feeling of not being so detached. It keeps us human.
Remember, detaching does not mean that you no longer love the person. No...you can love someone and NOT agree with there actions.
So be gentle on yourself. Take it slow. Now as you know I am prone to say...get up, put on the big girl panties and keep going.
God Bless you both and have a great weekend.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
