Well, your example actually supported the truism. If my W is having an affair, that's an action. I would pay attention to that. Instead, I paid attention to what she was saying, and became paranoid over a non-existent OP. You may not like the advice I was given, but your attempt to discredit it is really an ad hominem attack on other posters.
And your line about "those that say they will not "date""
It's nice to know that you have such deep insight into people's abilities based on what you read in forum posts.
Do me a favor. Your advice is unkind and unwanted.
