A new beginning to an end

[ImprovedRomeo]

When my W told me about her PA I felt a sudden rage, sadness and just like having no energy all within a few seconds as I tried to absorb what I just heard. I wanted to know EVERY detail but I told her 'thanks for telling me and even if I ask you for details please don't tell me' she agreed and while I never asked but I wondered about it. Thankfully I could walk away saying 'R you're just imagining things you don't know what happened'. And at least my W was nice enough to say that it sucked and she felt terrible about it...

Sol, CG, stop playing it like a video in your head over and over you'll drive yourselves nuts. I know it's easier for me to say it and I used to do the same but we must (and we all do) reach that point of acceptance that it happened and it's no way representative of YOU only THEM.

You're right time to move on Sol! Begin telling your folks? For me it wasn't that big a deal, I told my sis on the phone first then within a few hours my brother emailed me about it and the next thing I knew I was talking to my mom and dad about it. It actually sucked because they were really sad about it and it hurt me more to see them sad than myself- as if I let them down. Of course, it wasn't me and they were sad that it turned out that way.