Red--I met him at a zoo brewfest--not online...and I cracked up about the rest...money is a good discussion for another topic, actually!
WN-yeah...kind of confusing! He WASN'T originally looking to date, but then I asked him out.About that time, the "switch" went off where he realized it wasn't whether she would take HIM back but whether he would take HER back. So he decided to date and see what's out there and just to have fun.
I really think he did the right thing by telling me that he was having conflict over his exG, but...
CG-I think you're right! He wanted a listener/helper...I figured that I would just go with it, because I am not looking for anything, so who cares? He did ask me about my stuff, too, but I admit that I was in "helper" mode and since he is going to talk to her next week, and since I didn't know if I would be seeing him again, I didn't feel like baring my soul...if that makes sense!
Timeheals...I will acknowledge your comments as long as you please don't talk about me as if I am not here (it sounds very condescending and although you are older than me, you are not old enough to be my father).
Thanks! And yes DATING IS FUN!!! I AM SHOUTING, LOL! If it stops being fun, then that is when you shouldn't be dating...or at least that person. Pretty simple! (IMO)
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me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004