Was thinking about how hard we LBS try to "win our WAS back and It brought me to remember the scene in Ground Hog Day with BillMurray.

He tried so desperately to save the homeless man but each tme he tried something different the man would always end up dying.

He would not accept the fact that it was the man's time to die.

We LBSs need to let go of the notion that we will have out M back. Doing so we accept the situation and grow as individuals.

If they come back great, if not we still need to continue to grow as an individual.

I am totally convinced my M is over but still have a great R with my kids.
The pain does go away. And like many say here, Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?

Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."