So our house is going to be listed on Monday. She is still REALLY angry at the stance I took regarding not blaming my kid. She came out of it for a bit yesterday but then slammed me again for it this morning. I just stood firm and told her I did what I believe to be right and she was being very immature ( probably not a good word to use and didn't help much).
We then started talking about finding new places to live and I mentioned i had already contacted a Realtor ( to purchase new place ) and that caused another outburst as she said i should have coordinated with her before doing this. I just calmly said that she made the decision to separate and my only responsibility right now is to look after myself and my S to which she responded "must be nice for you" very sarcastic.
It seems like there is nothing i can do that doesn't set her off. Should I just ignore these outbursts or confront her on them ?
For someone who says she wants to remain friends after this is all over she is sure burning a lot of bridges ( I would have to do a lot of soul searching before i could decide on the friends route right now ). I already told her I have no intention of hanging out with her after this. She suggested we could hang around together with our current friends and then have separate lives on the side. My response was WTF followed by "you gotta be kidding". Do these walkaways think they can leave and then still control your life......amazing.
Then I get the "I really like you as a friend" line !!
i am lucky in the fact that I do have sufficient finances and support for my S to enable us to rebuild but buying a new home should be an exciting time and right now its really bumming me out.
I am just hoping now that we can separate as soon as possible as nothing good is going to come of living together right now. Maybe some time out on her own dealing with real life is the only chance of her coming around.
