I am trying to mix it up a bit. I have given her something to show some affection and love but I am also detached not showing to be needy showing strength. I guess the best way to put it is that I want to work on M, but if it doesnt happen I will move on.
With the pending house sitch, she basically has until the 1st to find a place to live. Or we rent a place together and keep working on us. She has not said anything about the gift nor has she made any arrangements for a place. I at least have been looking. I am going to ask her to watch the kids for part of the weekend so i can go look at some rentals. I will see if she offers to "come along".
The waiting game is what sucks. I know a lot of people here would rahter it be done, or get back to working on M, but we all have to wait.
