Thanks,PEI, I just finished surfing your sitch over my morning coffee (OK, coffeeeeeeess)
I can now refocus on Me (and my sitch) since you gave me this....
Originally Posted By: PEImom
I'm coming through this head held high, no regrets, knowing that I have taken the high road - I haven't acted out of anger or resentment, always from a place of love and compassion. I'm focussing on what I CAN control - ME. I'm fighting my personal demons and dragons, and although I don't always win the battles, the war is mine. Do what is right. Always. You can't lose that way. And trust yourself, you know what right is, you don't need us to tell you.
You can love and detach. Love and let go. Love and divorce. Unconditional love does exist.
The bold above are my struggles. Since I only confirmed the A a month ago, I was reeling and pretty "E-Ticket ride" myself. The month before that was "consumed with verifying the suspicions" Pretty 'obsessed and crazed' that month. The month before that was "understanding the bomb". Three separate "Theme Parks" in one summer.
And now vacation is over and I'm back to work-I am that work.