I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

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As I said, I am NO expert when it comes to dating but it's a pretty sh*tty thing to do.

I told her she would probably run into such an archtype while dating in my "dating is a battlefield sometimes" admonisions. I was dismissed by her with the pronouncement that "dating should be fun" in all capital letters (I think she was shouting?).

It's not that I don't see what you are saying, but do you see that she is on the rebound sa bit here too?

Let's be honest about men and women dating. While you hope the date is pleasant, if you are dating for the right reasons, then you are at least hoping that among the many people you might have to date, that you meet somebody who you feel a connection to and who feels the same way about you, and hopefully that you are both healthy enough emotionally and mentally not to screw it completely up at some point.