My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

oh, yeah.

I really do think he's just trying to get me to agree to a decrease "unofficially"--which I will never do. D14's life has essentially sucked the past 2 years in many ways, many (most?) related to xH's decision to abandon his family. This isn't about me, it's about her. I never saw him making the same sacrifices and feeling the same discomforts we have felt; I haven't seen him have any significant consequences for his actions--they've all fallen on us. It's time for that to change, perhaps; at any rate, I'm not sacrificing anything of D14's so he can have a more comfortable bachelor life.