I don't know, DQ--I'll have to check that out. I'm thinking when he brings it up again in October, I'm going to let him have it. his email was so condescending--"I know it's hard to balance things, my budget is tight, etc." His car is paid off, his income is very large for a single person (and I helped him get there, and he left after 2 months of prosperity), yes--D14's high school tuition is much larger than elementary school, but it's also larger for me, he owed a lot in taxes--but that's not my problem, he should have had more withheld. Maybe he shouldn't have gone to horse shows every weekend with gf#1, and he might have had more discretionary income. And he thinks D14's options and resources should be more limited because of his selfish decision? I don't think so.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012