No worries, we Canadians gotta take care of one another eh!

I hear ya man. My youngest is only 2 and I can't imagine not getting my fix every couple of days. So far I haven't had to go more than a day or two without seeing them for at least a few minutes. Not sure what our schedule will look like in the fall so for now I'm embracing the time I've got.

The best advice I've been given on here, and I've gotten lots, is NO REGRETS. I'm coming through this head held high, no regrets, knowing that I have taken the high road - I haven't acted out of anger or resentment, always from a place of love and compassion. I'm focussing on what I CAN control - ME. I'm fighting my personal demons and dragons, and although I don't always win the battles, the war is mine. Do what is right. Always. You can't lose that way. And trust yourself, you know what right is, you don't need us to tell you.

Steady's last post is bang on. 100%. You can love and detach. Love and let go. Love and divorce. Unconditional love does exist. I'm living it.

Peace
PEI

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc