Hi Lance! Thanks for your post! I have read through the book, but it was a while ago, so I dont remember everything, its the type of book you have at hand, it was a friends book, and shes since left...I'm waiting for me and H to get to the place where I have a sep bank account so I can purchase it online, one of the issue we have - or rather he has is money and he's very sensitive about seperate bank accounts (his parent had issues - his dad made all the cash, and the mom controlled it) - he wants to control money movings, so I'm not touching on that sensitive topic lest there be an almighty storm, and hes a scorpio, he literrally turns red and his eyes bulge, not that hed EVER hurt a fly, but still, I dont like pushing buttons right now, and THATs the big red one that says 'do not push' smile

I've read just about every single word on MLC on the entire internet - or at least it feels like it smile I'm a walking encyclopedia smile He hasnt got the worst case of MLC out there, but there are elements that point to MLC that I cant ignore, so its in that category for now.

thank you so much for your two cents smile I feel better just writing things out on this board, so the advice is like a cherry on top smile And very much needed!!!


M 31, H 34