Hi Lance! Thanks for your post! I have read through the book, but it was a while ago, so I dont remember everything, its the type of book you have at hand, it was a friends book, and shes since left...I'm waiting for me and H to get to the place where I have a sep bank account so I can purchase it online, one of the issue we have - or rather he has is money and he's very sensitive about seperate bank accounts (his parent had issues - his dad made all the cash, and the mom controlled it) - he wants to control money movings, so I'm not touching on that sensitive topic lest there be an almighty storm, and hes a scorpio, he literrally turns red and his eyes bulge, not that hed EVER hurt a fly, but still, I dont like pushing buttons right now, and THATs the big red one that says 'do not push'
I've read just about every single word on MLC on the entire internet - or at least it feels like it I'm a walking encyclopedia He hasnt got the worst case of MLC out there, but there are elements that point to MLC that I cant ignore, so its in that category for now.
thank you so much for your two cents I feel better just writing things out on this board, so the advice is like a cherry on top And very much needed!!!