Thanks, PEI. I wasn't sure whose thread this was for a while.
I had a really bad day here on the forum. I heard some stuff I wasn't prepared for and/or was willing to accept.
I just laid low for the last 5 or 6 hours and tried to collect my thoughts. MY thoughts.
I really liked your last line:
Originally Posted By: PEImon_of_3
Focus on you. Become the man you want to be ... regardless of how this plays out. ...not everyone can love someone the way they need to be loved as opposed to the way we want to love them.
I get my D back tomorrow. Missed her all week (snuck by the day home a couple times to check on her. Needed my fix.)
We'll have a fun weekend and then Monday W and I meet with a mediator and the fur will begin to fly. This will be a potential freak-show. W thinks she'll be walking away either debt free and/or with a little "going away present." The law and the math say different.