The thing I don't get is how can you tell someone else what they're experience is or was?
You're speaking from your own experience. Is it possible there are things and experiences that you haven't had yet?
I love my parents. They're dead. Obviously they're not giving me anything back. I love my kids. I give them 1000 and maybe get a 10 back. Probably will be like that for a long time. I don't just love them when they behave the way I want them to.
Listen, I'll love you as long as you behave the way I want you to. If you don't, well, then I'm gonna snatch it back up. My kids cross the boundaries all the time. There's a difference between the person and their behavior. I can see that.
I'm not talking about whether you will be with that person who crosses your boundaries. Sometimes I walk away from my kids and tell them I won't play with someone who behaves the way they are...but I don't stop loving them.
You can love someone and let them go. You can love someone and divorce them.
None of us are the end all be all of experience and knowledge. There will always be something else.
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