I did not vacuum or take S to the skate park today. I had to run over to the court house again, and I had to copy everything in the file to make sure I was prepared to meet with a third attorney. He really seems to want to help me. I am running out of time. He said my case is very different from the 10 - 15 he hears everyday. I am very excited to meet with him. I really don't want to go into the hearing alone. He said he will make me feel good again in 30 minutes. He thinks I have a real good case for primary parent. He said mothers usually get it, but he thinks I will be able to make the case for me to given this status. Many other attorneys have said the same thing. He want to get me some spousal support, so I do not have to live like this. He can't believe I am able to do it everyday. You have to do what you have to do.
I did take S and D to the doggie park today, and I showered them, had them brush their teeth, and tucked them into bed. W was following along too tonight. She cancelled her plans for a get together tomorrow. I guess she is nervous because of mediation. The lady said "we should not even bother, and it is just a formaility." Nothing to worry about. W and I will not budge from our wants for child custody. So we go to the hearing soon.
Kids did a little carnival night in their room, and it was fun.
W made dinner, but she did not make me dinner. I decided to buy something and bring it home. I bought her and kids cookies because I do not want them to do the this someday in the future to their spouse. They need to know how to treat other people. I want to help them to grow up to be good people. I have to set a good example for them as their Father to follow.
S was mad at mom and sister because W came home and only took D for a walk while S was waiting patiently for her. Then she took them to the room without me. She is very mad and angry today.
She wants to take S and D to a bunch of places, and she has the money to do it.
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