Because of course whomever is crying the most is the one who experienced the most injustice right?
can i get a big UH-HUH!!
ok .. so allen a, is my h cheating on me? or was he just spineless?
you know, he parrots his parents and never seems to want to make a decision himself. everything was always up to me. and it almost seems like .. if it goes wrong, then i get blamed because the decision wasn't his.
the first thing he said to me when he dropped the d-bomb was .. "my parents don't think you treat me very nicely". and i'm thinking .. what do YOU think?
and then he said "my parents are starting to question my decision in marrying you.". and again, what do YOU think?
both questions, i never got an answer. so basically, i feel like he's d-ing me because mom and dad said so. and if he ends up alone and bitter, his parents will be the ones to blame and not him.
it's very unhealthy. he holds so much resentment. you can just see the inner turmoil. my parents were questioning my decision to marry my w. now i'm unhappy, alone, and old.
