Sol, I'm sorry but it's totally expected, I think I mentioned it. He will be upset but his feelings are no longer your responsibility. Only your own well being and your feelings are your responsibility.

Not to get your hopes up high but if you take a strong stance he will come to the table to negotiate. Let him mull over it for a bit go talk to your L and find out exactly what your options are. Are you in the US? not sure why I keep thinking you might be in Canada. Anyway, the L's should be able to run the preliminary numbers and tell you exactly what you qualify.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again