I think you can tell the truth without drawing people in.
People I haven't seen since the drama started have asked me how I'm doing and I tell them the truth -- I'm going through a divorce and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
Lately, I find I haven't been pouring my heart out as much although tonight my uncle asked me "what happened" and that drew me into a 10 minute discussion.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6