Just from what I have read and what I've been told, IF I understood correctly...IF they go on to marry OW, they did not come out of the tunnel and will more than likely repeat the same mistakes as they have not faced their issues.
Have you read HeartsBlessings Stages of a MLC??? She explains about her H having changed after they come out of the tunnel...IF MLCer have faced everything they need to face and come into acceptance...then I believe that they will be a little humbled so pride shouldn't be an issue.
Again, not sure if I understood it all correctly so if anyone has a different interpretation, would be happy to read it!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
